This is very similar to https://sebiik.github.io/community.axoloti.com.backup/t/fixed-coded-object-referencing-instead-of-using-an-attribute/3825/6
But that thread seems to have wrapped up and it did not have a syntax example which would be super helpful.
In the factory 'recv f' I find this code in the k-rate tab, 'outlet_v = attr_sender.vi;'. The 'attrsender' is an object reference which is the 'name' of the send object.
It seems like all I have to do is change 'attr_sender.vi' to 'object-name'.vi. If I want more send/receives I just add variables in the send/receive objects that take the place of '_vi'.
Here is some pseudo code of what I want to accomplish:
In send object, named 'midiCentral'
int32_t send = 1<<27;
In receive object;
int32_t receive = parent->instancemidiCentral_i.send;
Is that all there is to it?